Wow! I didn't know that I would receive so many responses from so many. So, I thought that I would add to my post and answer questions to those of you who took the time to ask.
1. Am I real? Yes, I am a real woman.
2. Is this post from actual experience? Yes, and some advice given to me from my friends who have had similar experiences.
3. Are these true? Yes, they are.
4. Do you want to hook up with me? No- after the experience I've had on here, it will be a long time before I use CL again. I'm happy being single.
5. To he who apologizes for his gender, thank you. it's not really your fault. it's all genetics and evolution.
6. Has anyone really done this?? Yes, that's why I posted it.
7. Would you be interested in a "real man" who not only already follows this advice, but lives it too? No- thanks. I'm done with CL.
Ok , so here is some more advice. and this happened to one of my friends. Prior to her hook-up she asked the guy when was the last time he was in a relationship? He answered, "Sheesh, a long time ago." She asked, why? He said, "Because I got tired of all of the problems that she would create to simply have something to talk about, like most women do to hear their own voices." Yeah, that was a winner.
Also, another girl friend of mine said that she told the guy that she was a real cat lover. Her hook- up admitted to hurting a cat as a dare with his friends. Yeah, that ain't going to get you laid either.
Another guy asked the woman as soon as they were done, "Would you like to put your clothes back on and get ready to leave?" as he threw her underwear at her. WOW! Classic.
He took the cake- he�s the one I mentioned in the original post. (who showered right after too) I think he has a hatred for women; he certainly did not know how to have sex; it was like he was running a marathon.
However, I'm not looking to hook up and I wouldn't use CL anymore. My last experience really has turned me off to the whole CL dance. Basically, I've found that (and I've posted on here about it, too) that it's usually the same men, they don't listen or pay attention to details on a post- how would they in bed? (eg: I asked for 30-35 and I get 20-45; I asked to please not post "cock" pictures, and they send only cock pictures; I say no pic no reply- and they ask ME for a picture first and they constantly think that they're so clever in that they somehow say, "oh my picture is too big and CL won't let me post, can you send one of you first?, etc." Also, I asked if we could chat first in order to be more comfortable, and the ones I "chatted" with lost interest in like 2 hours.)
In addition, the majority Adult singles dating in Sherwood, Maryland (MD). of men who responded to my original post, all wanted to hook up.
And finally, even though I posted the ad, it turned out how I was supposed to do what THEY wanted, and not the other way around.
So, please have some manners, decency, class, BASIC social and hygiene skills�Remember, it�s a two way street. CE can be a really uncomfortable thing for all parties involved� but with just the basics it doesn�t have to be.
Good luck guys and stay safe.
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